When girls refer to ‘girl talk’ we basically mean we’re going to meet friends and talk about our sex lives. After grabbing lunch and having ‘girl talk’ with my sister last week I was inspired… inspired to write this post of course. Let’s be real here, we live in the 21st century where sex has sadly just become sex to some.
What kind of world are we living in? Why is casual sex so freaking common now? Do people even make love anymore? What is love? I’m sure you’ve asked yourself these questions at least once… I know I have.
Sex talk has become so much more common and so much easier to talk about. Who are we to blame? SOCIETY. The society we live in is so open and eager to talk about their personal experiences and/or fantasies. Sex has become now more of an action rather than an emotional feeling. Making love and having sex are NOT the same thing and never will be. We as human beings need to understand the difference and decide what it is that satisfies your sexual needs.
Having sex is a physical action for your satisfaction. It is something that happens when two people are completely and totally aroused by each other. There does not need to be any love connection just that strong sexual desire. It is not know to involve emotions (but it can)… it is known to be careless, rough, and spur of the moment kind of thing. It can be done in the private or public eye, it can be done anywhere you want it to be done- that is what makes having sex so careless.
Don’t get me wrong, sex is great but I feel as if it would be so much better if there is an actual connection with your partner. Making love is deep. You and your partner both agree on having the same feelings towards each other and chose to prove that to each other. Making love is an indescribable feeling. You have a fire in your soul and crave every part of them to be yours.
I do believe you can have a good mix of both in your life. You can have the careless I’m just going to f*ck you right here sex, or the let me slip on some lingerie and make love to you until the sun comes up sex… the choice is yours.