Raise your hand if you claimed you wanted a good guy in your life.
Now raise your hand if you have chosen a bad boy over a good guy.
Since we were little, we have been trained by social media and the media to always pick a bad guy in our lives. Why? Because that’s what all the cool kids do. No seriously. We are trained that a guy doesn’t like us unless he is a douchebag, ignores us, picks other girls over us and ultimately breaks our heart. While there have been movies and shows that captures the “good guy” it just never works out.
While I know this for a fact, I still wonder why has no one broken away to find a “good guy” when they complain they want one. It comes down that in today’s age we get bored with those who are a “good guy” because we can’t fix them. Yes you heard me right. Girls want to be able to fix the guy they are dating. Some girls today just don’t want to have something that is already perfect. Twisted logic, I know.
So what happens to the good guy? Do they disappear and let the bad guys move in? In my experience, good guys who keep getting pushed to the side for someone to pick a bad guy have started to deteriorate and transform into a bad guy. Does this mean this is the disappearance of the good guy? I would love to hear your thoughts.