I realize that you have fallen head first, madly and deeply for the same man that’s currently in someone else’s life as their significant other. However, whether it’s a game to your or not, the significant other of this man does not find your game funny, or appealing at all.
In fact, if this girl knows about you, she curses your name and sees right through the game you are trying to play. While you try to buddy up with this man and offer them free plane rides to a game, and refer to this girl as “xyzs girl” she knows exactly what you’re doing. You start to toe the line to see what you can get away with and see how far you can push. You know that this will cause a rift between the relationship, but when it comes down to it you just don’t care. But why would you? You haven’t spent the past 6 months, a year or two years with this guy learning about all the skeletons in their closet, meeting their entire family or going through the rough times with them. No. You only see the glamorous side of being with him.
As a fellow female and as a part of this pack, I write this letter to you to stop. Stop the enticing. Stop toeing the line. If he’s picked someone you need to let it go. There’s no need in ruining something based on the fact you want what you can’t have. You are an amazing person who deserves so much more than the label of a home wrecker or relationship ruiner. I’ve watched your kind ruin too many relationships, engagements and marriages for far too long.
The girl who knows all about you